I am
sure, you have made up your mind, with the list of resolutions for the year
ahead and it is now time for you to forge ahead, making it happen.
Unfortunately,
most of us quit our resolutions at different timelines from the time we kick
start our New year. So, is there a mantra that can help us
glued
to our resolution? Yes, luckily there is one! But the difficult part is we need
to internalise it, in order to make it work. The mantra is, “NO PAIN, NOGAIN”.
The
idea of pain, is something we all are averse of. No one wants to go through a
painful process. We are always looking at choosing an easy way out. But we need
to remember few things in life are not attained, unless we dare to go through
the painful process.
We
have all studied in school, the life cycle of butterfly, where we got
introduced to a wonderful terminology - Metamorphosis. Metamorphosis is
the
transformation process of how a caterpillar becomes a butterfly. The
metamorphosis is no doubt painful, but the end result is that a dirty crawling
caterpillar
becomes a colourful and beautiful butterfly that can fly, from flower to
flower, adding beauty to the garden and being admired by all. For
the
butterfly, the resultant gain is worth the pain, it had to go through.
Similarly,
when we believe that the resultant gain of a painful process is going to be of
much higher value to us, there are higher chances for us to willingly accept
and go through the pain.
But
what stops us from going through a painful grind. Is it because we are unable
to get out of our comfort zone? Is it because, we find it difficult to
overcome
our temptations? Is it because, our aspirations are weak? Or is it we are not
willing to pay the price?. The reasons could be many. When we
are
fixed with such dilemma, the simple guideline we need to follow is:
“Short
term pain, long term pleasure;
Short
term pleasure, long term pain”
We
are easily carried away by a number of short term pleasures, as it instantly
gratifies us. But if you closely look into it, most often the end result of
indulging in such activities is pain. Short term pleasure activities like
smoking,
drinking, indulging in high calorie foods, excessive sleeping, heartless
gossiping, mindless TV watching may give us short term pleasure, but in the long
run becomes detrimental to our health, our well
being,
our relationships and ultimately our growth.
On
the other hand, we tend to avoid many things which instantly sound like pain
but the end result of pursuing such activities leads to lasting happiness.
Activities such as waking up early, doing physical exercise, being free of bad
habits, cutting down on junk foods, to learn something new, to work few extra
hours, to stick to a daily routine, to live a disciplined life. These may feel like
pain at the face of it, but eventually helps us to be a healthy person, a
highly performing individual and an achiever.
We
advise our children, if you want to live a comfortable life in future, you
should study well, now. You should not mindlessly watch TV, browse internet or
gossip with friends. You should use this time to study. Now tell me, does it
sound like pain or pleasure? Of course it sounds like pain. To study for long
hours is not easy. But the rewards of pain are truly immense and there is a
ripple of benefits down the line. The same applies to us well. If we want to
achieve greatness and make a meaningful contribution to this world, we should
be willing to forego some short term pleasures. No big achievement has ever
happened without a painful routine. Ask any sportsman and he would say how many
hours of tireless effort he has put before he reached, where he is today. There
is no easy way out. “Burning the midnight oil”, is a term we often hear of when
we talk about people who strived relentlessly in making their dream come true.
Great academicians,
Great
musicians, Greats artists, Great scientists, Great sportsmen, all have one
thing in common. To them their dream was bigger than their life. They were
willing to pay the price of time and effort, for the rewards they aspired in
life.
If
you aspire greatness, then follow this mantra of our predecessors who achieved
greatness. I wish you live by your New Year resolution, with firm grit and determination,
so that you turn out to be, what you aspire to be.
Happy Reading,
D. Senthil Kannan
Article Dated Jan 2014