Of all the things, I see there is
one incentive which I feel really works with everyone. Maybe because, that is
the most rarest to find today or may be very few people are willing to share it
with others. It does not cost them anything, but people are still so reluctant
to give it away. This incentive works great magic with your spouse, your
children, your family members, your colleagues, your subordinates and even your
superiors. It has always been assumed that the most important factor that
drives a person is the money or the fame. I am surprised how this thing, that I
am talking about has never been thought about. Infact, I feel that this is the
greatest motivator, of all . It is called APPRECIATION.
How many of us, really use this
on a daily basis. How many of us know that this can be a effective tool to
motivate, your team when all other resources are running dry. Appreciating
people is a art, which we need to cultivate in our lives. It is also our moral
duty to teach our children the “art of appreciating”.
A country like ours, which has
such abundance of resources, lacks in this great resource called appreciation. If
you ask a parent, why they do not appreciate their children for the marks they
get, they may say, that they expect their children to perform better and
reserve the appreciation for the day, the child gets 100/100, which is never
going to happen without the small, small appreciations the child earns for its
small, small achievements.
Start to appreciate others and
see the benefits, for yourself. The
results would be far more than you would have imagined.
Happy Reading,
D.Senthil Kannan
