Friday, July 13, 2007

CHILDREN COME IN ALL SHAPES AND COLOURS


I was reading a article in the last month issue of “Frozen Thoughts” and it spoke about the different types of employees working in an organisation. As I was contemplating on the content, I related the same to the different types of students, which gave me some valuable insights which I would like to share.
Of the many factors, that decide the academic success of a student, what we can identify as two predominant traits are his INTELLIGENCE level and ENERGY/ MOTIVATION level. So, this gives way to a matrix which can be something like this:
Type 1:  High Intelligence + High Energy
= Brilliant Student
Type 2:  Low Intelligence + Low Energy 
= Dull Student
Type 3:  High Intelligence + Low Energy
 = Average Student
Type 4:  Low Intelligence + High Energy
 = Aggressive/ Adamant Student
Though we tend to believe that God created all equally, it is not true. We see difference in colour, character, and also the intelligence level. Psychologists classify children as Gifted hildren, Special Child and Normal Child.
The “Gifted child”  is a  quick learner as he has the ability to grasp and understand  concepts effortlessly.
The “Special child” needs special care, from the teachers and students, because they find it difficult to understand what is being taught to them. It is only by repetitive teaching, can these children understand the subject.

In between these two classification comes the “Normal child”, which is of concern to us today. They are like the seed with potential to grow to a big tree, but because they do not get the special care that a special child gets or the appreciation that a gifted child gets, they get stranded on being a average child.
The responsibility of bringing out the best in a average child largely depends upon his/ her teachers and parents.
The general mentality of the parent, who has a average child is that they are comfortable with the performance of their children and they are indifferent towards their performance. For example, if the child has shown some small improvement in his marks, he is not appreciated. He is always compared with the brilliant students and made to feel that his small achievements are not praise worthy. Similarly, when his performance goes down, they do not take it seriously. They just tell him to do well next time. There is no special care given to make him improve on his weak subjects.
Similarly with the teachers, the reason why an average child is no ones child is because of the lack of involving them. Let as assume a class of 30. In this class the top ten performers are called the brilliant children and the last ten are called the dull students. The brilliant children are asked to take part in all the programmes and activities representing the school. The school is interested that it should win more prizes and awards to gain public honour, and therefore have the team consisting of the brilliant children. As far as the dull children, they are generally not interested in participating. But it is the average child who aspires to participate, but is not given a chance. This attitude of the teacher demotivates the child. He starts feeling inferior to others and he himself puts up a mental block, that he has not talents.
In a world of today, success is not defined by the academic performance of the student. What the corporate world is looking for today, is street smart executives who have a flair in communication and a indomitable spirit.
We have a role to play in shaping up the generation of tomorrow. Let us look with new eyes, to the average child and create a better world for him. This we can achieve only by involvement, motivation and appreciation.


Happy Reading,

D. Senthil Kannan
Article Dated July 2007